My friend is the worst person to go out to eat with.

When she orders at a restaurant, she takes forever and has so many substitutions and requests, that the rest of us literally shrink in our chairs out of embarrassment.

She even demands that the waiter brings her a small bowl of soup to sample as she orders!

How do we get Tessa to ease up on her ordering before I ban her from ever going to dinner with our circle of friends again?