me & my boyfriend have been together for 7 months we both have a child, we live together, we both work, we take care of our business. He has custody of his daughter and she lives with us but every blue moon his babys mom comes out of nowhere and blows up the phone and texts non sense gets on fb computer thuggin and its always about me she wants us to be over so bad but she swears she wants nothing to do with him. She said she hates me for trying to be a mom to her daughter?? but the worst part is we cant get her to keep her child longer than 2 consecutive days she's damaged my car & every time I mention "fight" she goes all police on me. My boyfriend acts so clueless when this happens so... What in the world should I do. stomp her face in & shut her up or keep quiet & let it ride?? Help!

Signed:the bigger person