My husband has a problem with porn. We have been married for 12 years and together for 15. At first he would just be on the computer alot looking at it. We have had a computer for around 6 years now and he has gone overboard. We just bought a house and my husband hated his job. After he buys us our beautiful home he forced the company to fire him. This job paid a wonderful wage and was letting us live a nice life. I have just recently found out that my husband asked a 22 year girl to make a porn movie with him and sell it on the internet. Thank God I found out before it happened. I don't know if this was the first or if there has been more. He says this is the first time. I made him make a decision: porn or myself. At that time he chose me. He said he would stop watching it. Two weeks have gone by and he told me now that he is going to continue to look at porn and for me not to threaten him with leaving him over it. It is now Nov. and he still is not working or looking. Money problems now are starting to creep up now. I just don't make enough on my job to cover our bills. He has pulled $9,000.00 in cash withdrawals off MY credit card. Also has maxed his. $10,000.00. He also received $23,000.00 in his 401K. It is gone to. When I ask where he spent it he tells me bills, however we are behind and I just can't believe him. I don't trust him anymore. This is a all day everyday thing, (Movies). He is a flirt anyway and tells me he loves women. This is my second marriage and I was very much in love him. Now I don't know any more. He has chosen porn over me. I feel like I have been replaced. How do I know if he is making these movies or not and selling them. The worst is he is in the movie too. I just want to run and not look back BUT again I loved him so much. I'm so insecure now and don't really know what to do. Thought he was my soulmate until the end. Now I just don't know. So sad. Please help