I am 33 and my boyfriend is 46 and have been together 10 months. We live together too by the way. I am at a fork in the road on whether to move forward (towards marriage) or to leave. One major issue is in the bedroom. He will not kiss at all and doesn't like foreplay on my end. I've explained to him how this makes me feel and wonder if he is attracted to me. However, he has asked on his own or hinted rather that he'd like me to marry him and I blow him off. I can't imagine committing to a relationship like this. However he refuses to seek counseling, to change and told me I'd grow out of need of kissing and romance because only teenagers do that!.