Hey Chris, I'm a single successful woman w/ no kids.  I haven't been in a relationship for a few years.  My friends say it's because I won’t have sex until I see his bank statements.  I don't want his money, but need to know if we're in the same tax bracket at least.  I'm not selling myself short anymore! So, ask your listeners if this is really why I can't find a man??!!  Are they embarrassed or just broke?

“Chris, I've been dating a guy for a few months, caught him sexting.  We were at dinner, he's texting while I talk and when I grabbed the phone I saw a text that said, "Wear that skirt I like." to a woman he works with. I went in on him and he said I was overreacting! Is this cheating?”

 

 

Hey Chris,  I met my current boyfriend 2 years ago...we've been happy since!  He's actually my first relationship EVER, and for the last few months I've had thoughts about being with a woman.  I'm not gay, but concerned that he may not approve, so should I tell my man about these thoughts or just hope it's a phase?  

My husband came home the other day and told me he'd put money down on a truck.  We already have two cars, so it wasn't neccessary.  Being the supportive wife I didn't make a big deal about it just asked the cost.  He told me $40,000.  He makes less than that in a year! I told him I didn't think it was neccessary, but couldn't convince him to NOT make the purchase.  How can I avoid this financial disaster?

“Chris, I have two good friends that don’t get along, one is sleeping w/ her son’s father while my other friend is in a relationship with him.  I got love for them both…what should I do?  Should I tell them both or not say anything at all?!? He's getting over and I'm tired of seeing my friends fight!!!”

Chris!!  My man and me have been together 3 years!  When we met he had agreat job, nice car and was confident.  Well, last year his business took a turn for the worse and money became short...then his car got repoed.  Now he seems lost and not sure where to go and his lack of motivation is a turn OFF!  I've told him that I'm here no matter what, but he hasn't even tried to re-coup.  What can I do to help him without putting my finances on the line??? 

Chris...I'm 24 and 2 years ago was in a bad place.  I was a call girl and did some unmentionable things for money.  I left that business and found a great job and am happy.  I 've been seeing this guy for a few months and am really enjoying the relationship.  Should I tell him about my past as a call girl or just keep it to myself?? 

Chris I ended a horrible 4 year marriage after dealing with cheating and lies.  Since my divorce I haven’t had sex, it's been 9 months.  I recently had some work done to my car and noticed the mechanic was fine!  We chatted, flirted and I discovered he's married, but seperated! Is it a bad idea to get intimate with him?

Chris...my friend & I have been close since 5th grade.  We're both22 now and she's been suspecting her man of cheating on her.  She wants to catch him in the act and wants my help.  She asked if I would come onto him when she wasn't around and see if he'll follow through.  Should I get caught up in this?  Will it ruin our friendships if he bites the bait???  Help!

Chris...My hubby and I have been married about a year.  I learned through his sister that his last relationship ended badly.  He was abusive to his ex, she filed charges and a restraining order was put in place.  He never has shown signs of abuse towards me and I am shocked at this, but more angry that  he didn't share it w/ me!  So, should I be concerned about him being abusive to me in the future?  Can a once abusive man do a 360 and mantain a healthy relationship?  Thanks ladies.

Hey Lady! I have an issue with my co-worker and before I snap her neck and lose my job I need advice!  We work at Dr.'s office and she ALWAYS comes in late.  When we handle the front desk she is unorganized and unprofessional.  She takes long lunches leaving me with short ones.  No one seeems to notice these things but me and I need for it to change ASAP.  Should I talk to her or hit the head of the office with this??

Chris, I am a gay woman in my 30's with no kids.  I would love to have a child one day.  I am wondering if any of your listeners could enlighten me on the best route to do so.  My partner and I have researched a little, but want to hear about others that may have had invetro or are in my position. I wonder too if two women could raise a child as their own???

Chris...After dating my man 2 years we're planning our future.  We recently came clean about some things and he told me in college, 5 years ago, he ended up being intimate with a transexual, a man dressed like a woman.  They didn't have sex, but were intimate.  He admits he wasn't sure of her gender but went along with this anyway.  I don't know what to think!  Does this make him gay??

Been dating my dude about 8 months. Before me he was with his HS sweetheart, but they broke up when HE cheated.  They remained friends and she moved on.  Now he has asked if I would be willing to vacation with her and her NEW man this summer?  It's cheaper with more of us, and I'm considering, but wondering if its a bad idea.  Should I vacay with my man, his ex and her NEW man?? Help!

Chris C., I was married about 3 months ago.  My man and I dated about a year, during that time he wined and dined me and also did most of the cooking & cleaning when I moved in.  Since we married he suddenly is expecting me to switch roles and do what he's been doing.  Cooking and daily cleaning just isn't my thing.  I work full time and go to school and this wasn't the arrangement.  Is my marriage doomed because I'm just NOT into being domesticated?!? 

Hey!  I have been friends w/ my bff for 4 years.  She dated this guy for a year, but SHE cheated.  They broke up a few months ago and I've been talking to him.  Nothing intimate, but she doesn't know.  I'm feeling him and want to get with him, but am wondering if this will end my friendship with her?!  What do you think???